Some Really Good Advice

Whether updating your profile pictures, or finally meeting your online interest-have a look at these tips for looking your best.  Remember, it's important to depict yourself accurately-you definitely don't want to build your relationship on a false impression.  

Weekend Patience

So, the weekend is almost over, but it still could be seen as a great opportunity to reconnect with your online interest.  For me personally, I began online dating because I was a young professional that didn't really have the time to be going on dates, or meeting people that was eventually leading to nothing.  Don't get me wrong, networking and meeting people is very important to building a strong social foundation.

Regardless of the fact that you are just beginning an online relationship or are involved in a traditional relationship, a lot of the same rules apply.  Good things take time, and while I might be impatient at times, I have had to learn that sometimes you just need to take it slow and wait.  A good, solid relationship takes a long time to build, and if you're serious about making it last, then you could view the time taken as a positive investment.

A theme that has started resonating itself in my life is balance, everything seems to be about balance.  If you're in a relationship, online or traditional and your partner seems to be moving at a different pace, then it might seem like you are off balance.  Speaking from experience, this has happened to me, and the outcome was almost foreshadowed by the lack of balance within our entire relationship.

Not that I'm trying to sound jaded, but I took a lot away from that experience.  One of the most important being both parties need to be on the same page to achieve that balance, and sometimes that takes time.  But, believe me, it'll be worth it.

Have a good rest of the weekend!

Top 10 Hilarious Pick Up Lines

Just for fun, we thought we would share our top 10 pickup lines. Please post us your favorites too!

·         Would you touch me so I can tell my friends that an angel has touched me?

·         If you were a burger at McDonald's, you'd be called McGorgeous!

·         Can I Buy You A Drink Or Do You Just Want The Money?

·         Can I Have Your Phone Number? I Seem To Have Lost Mine

·         You're like a dictionary ... you add meaning to my life

·         Do you have a bandaid? I scraped my knee when I fell for you

·         Are you from Tennessee cause you’re the only ten I see?

·         Did you have lucky charms for breakfast? Because you look magically delicious!

·         I would buy you a drink but I’d just be jealous of the glass.

·         Are you parents bakers… cause you got some hot buns!

Interesting article

The more I read and write about on-line dating, the less of a stigma I know its become. Read this interesting article about this booming industry; http://www.inc.com/best-industries-2011/online-dating-and-matchmaking.html

Trying Different Online Dating Sites

I think the key when using the online dating sites is to use more than one at once. Before I met Regan, I had used many sites to try to find what suited me, some provided a positive experience and others didn't live up to their promises. It really is trial and error, and a lot of patience. -James

I have to agree with James on this one...You need to keep an open mind, and realize that what works for some people might not necessarily work for you.  For instance, if you're using one particular site, and haven't gotten the results you thought you would, you are most likely going to get burned out.  But if you expand your options to more than one specific site, you will have plenty of options to eventually give you exactly what you need.  Make sure to check out sites like this to begin to narrow down what sites are best suited for you. Happy weekend all! -Regan

New Beginnings

Welcome to a new blog filled with new beginnings and opportunities! James and I are so proud to have finally launched a site and accompanying blog that will help daters, cyber daters more specifically. I'll take this opportunity to introduce myself, and our website, top10usdatingsites.com,  which has additional useful tools for your connivence and use.


James and I met at a cocktail party many year ago, and have been good friends ever since.  We've both had our relationship ups and downs, and have come to rely on each other for valuable advice.  We decided to launch top10usdatingsites.com to help fellow singles out there navigate through the sometimes murky waters of dating and relationships.


Our goal is provide advice for choosing an online dating site that's right for you, along with firsthand relationship advice, articles, statistics, and how to's, to make this a fun and enjoyable experience for all!  We are excited to provide both a male and female perspective on relationships.  So, from time to time we will be posting together to give you a balanced view of dating.


We are so excited to begin this adventure with you!  Much more to come -Regan